4 Quadrants of Life after Marrige ..!!!--From A Husband's Perspective :)

When I was giving my Bank PO exam in 2013, I never thought that a day will come when I will make the analogy that I am going to, today. Bank PO exam used to have 4 sections (don't know if the format has changed). A candidate has to clear not only the overall cutoff but also the sectional cutoffs, to be successful.  

When I was getting married, then also I never thought that a day will come when I will make the analogy that I am going to, today. 

I think by now you should have got an idea about what 2 things I am about to compare,  yes Married life and a Bank PO Examination.  But the catch is the question: What are the 4 sections of a married person..??


Well I have by my 6 months of marriage had reached to this answer- Four sections of a Married Life are 
          
        1. Household: This includes you, your wife, your brother/sister, your wife's brother/sister, your parents, your wife's parents, your children etc. Managing responsibilities that you have towards these people is a very important part. 
PS: you have to follow commands and you have no choice especially when it comes to your wife's family.

          2. Self: This is second quadrant that you need to balance. No matter how impossible it may seem but it is very important that you keep your self intact. If you will sacrifice your hobbies interests enjoyment you will not be able to stay happy. So my advice will be keeping some part of your's pre-marriage Self retained at all times. 

                 3. Career: This is the third quadrant that you need to balance. No matter how impossible it may seem but it is very important that you keep working on your self-development. If you will sacrifice your growth ultimately you will end up frustrated. You will vent this frustration on your relationships and all will end up frustrated relationships.

                  4. Better half: This is the most important quadrant this I don't need to tell you, smart people. Balancing all others with this one can be very smooth or can be very bumpy. And the nature of ride solely depends on the mood of your wife. You can only do your Karma but Fal will always be in the hands of ALMIGHTY (and mind it I am not talking about GOD here ).

So as you can see that clearing cutoffs in all the sections is very very important for a smooth life even after getting married. I hope this helps all my readers to tackle the beautiful situation for beautiful experience. 

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