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If you GET what u LOVE its SUCCeSS If u LOVE what you GET its HAPPiNESS These were the two line that were able to grab my attention today. It really feels strange how few words can open a plethora of thoughts in your head. As soon as I read these lines I started applying them to the myriad of aspects of my life. One of these aspects is my MARRIAGE which is the most significant of things that have happened in my life recently. Applying the above theory it will not be wrong to say that the first line describes Love Marriage while the second line clearly depicts Arrange Marriage. If we love someone and marry him it is quite a success. On the other hand we learn to love a person our parents select for us. Though the second scenario is hard to accept for those who have start loving their better halves like me but its somewhat true. Another good example of above theory is our career. Either one can fight and get the job he wants which are rare ones others are the general people who tr...

               Shift in Indian Education System....from Nationalism to Macaulayism Today I came across a statement in newspaper by some man with a beard (looked like he is some GURU or something). It was like this : " I consider the current education system as real culprit. It is not focused on Learning but on Earning". As most of the times, I discarded the statement as a mere worthless propaganda sentence from another Hindu fanatic. Y esterday also when Venkahia Naidu also said the similar words I didn't paid heed to them taking it as another political gambit.  But then I remembered once I preached to one of my juniors that " Discarding something without giving it a proper thought is the biggest sign of Narrow Mindedness" . Well I like to be counted in open minded lot so for that sake I decided that I will research on it and then decide. So the first thing I did was read that article in full. In it I cam...

Wireshark is a well-known software in Computer Network world. In this article, I will describe it in a very simple laymen language for everyone to understand. In the Computer world, we have heard of Internet. What Internet is, is a network of many computers connected together. Now let us compare it with the world around us. It is similar like all the houses are connected by roads. If houses represent our computers than roads are the wires which are connecting them together (here let's talk only about wired networks for the sake of simplicity). Also to enter each house we need to pass through a gate. Similarly in computer networks, there are equipments known as gateways which one need to pass to communicate to a computer.  As the picture of network is clear let us move on to its use. We know that information is continuously flowing in these networks. This information is of many types. These different type of informations is received and processed by different set of rules....

“Volunteerism”, a word that generates in every young mind a wave of enthusiasm and urge for becoming a part of a change that the combined action of all the volunteers will bring. Volunteerism is the phenomenon in which a person participates in an act by his own willingness, out of his own conscience. Such a person is called a Volunteer. A volunteer gets solace in the thought that he has done his share of duty, that he is not the one to be counted among onlookers. And this is a very big thing, not to be an onlooker but a doer .  Now talking about the transition the question arises “What actually does it takes to make this transition”? Well the answer can be found by looking back into the life to the day when we first volunteered. The answers that we will find are quite common in most cases. This transition from being an onlooker to a doer takes a lot of motivation and will power especially for the first timers. It comes from the people around us like our parents, teachers,...

Today a colleague of mine Ramesh gave us the party for buying a new bike. After a democratic discussion it was decided to order Jalebi and Dhokla. While eating Jalebi which was quite tasty I decided to dedicate todays blog to this great Indian dish.  Looking at it I was just amazed how intelligent we Indians are to invent such an extraordinary dish out of the blue. I was really feeling proud and started typing.  "Round and round bearing several shades of colour...some where very deep somewhere shallow...at some place full of sweet nectar at others a bit drier......"  This was the line I was on when Jules call me .  I walked out of the room and we talked for few minutes. When I returned I got blank ...completely forgot what was the topic I was writing about.  Well to tell you this happens to me quite a bit these days. I just forget what I was on a minute back. Although you might get worried about me but I find it funny and to be honest enjoy these mom...

4 2day I have nothing 2 write or maybe there is something. Let me tell u about the adventurous Saturday me and Jules had. Well it had to be a simple Saturday evening but thanks to me it turned out to be a blunder-full goofed-up interesting one. The making of it started about 2 weeks b4 when Jules rained on me "Shivam U never show me movies, when was the last time we went to watch a movie, all my friends go to watch movie with their husbands !!! ". Well then what. The next thing I remember was me scrolling down the latest movie releases on Bookmyshow. For next 10-12 days I couldn't find anything of interest. Finally on Friday TE3N was released. For sometime Jules was admiring the performances of Nawazuddin Siddiqui. So I thought why not this one. Also the great thing was Paytm was giving Buy 1 Get 1 on it.  Without loosing a second I quickly clicked and clicked again chose Cinepolis made the payment 4 2 and done!!. I had the enthu of conquest on me. Very confidently ...

For a few days I observed that Jules complaints a lot listening to which I started to wonder howcome she has such a negative view of everything. Initially I tried to find solutions , tried to motivate her to develop a positive outlook, even tried to fight, thinking that this might bring some change in her. But all the above approaches proved futile. She is still the same.  Complaints about fitting of her socks to colour of her shirt, about the Metro to colleague in office. All day long.  Though I know it sounds irritating but as you know very well that HUSBANDS are not allowed to get irritated or angry :) . Also I didnot wanted that to happen as we have our whole life ahead and I knew that Getting irritated will not get us anywhere. So I sat thinking about it and then there  came that LIGHTBULB idea :) . I googled it and there came thousands of results. I started reading them and came to know a few facts which helped me to deal with the issue. First thing to know ...

                                               Most of us can remember those moments of anxiety that come with signing of a bond while joining our hard earned so much necessary new job. And then in a few months comes a new opportunity, a better option and we start asking ourselves...what about that bond that I signed while joining. We start by calculating if the bond period is over or not or how many more days after adding notice period n all do we have.  We weigh our options on how much bond amount we have to pay and how much will we gain.  These questions and this situation of great dilemma...I know everyone has faced it at some moment of their career. In this blog I bring you some answers that will increase your insight in the matter and will give you some initial legal knowhow to proceed. In Indian constitution Article 19 guarantees th...

Two good news came from 6th-June-2016....it was birthday of one of my very good friend Rishi and second was that an angel came into this world as a daughter of my ex-roomy and good friend Amitva....(well he is known as Amit Tripathi to most but that is what I call him Amitva). Remembering the good hostel days I can still animate those moments of fight and fun that we all used to have....me my hostel mates our juniors...it was like a family then and it is still the same. We are thick as thieves and best of the best Suryans. In our first year we were the best cricket team among all the hostels and in our rest of the years the best volleyball team. The matches were so full of passion and energy that even Sun used to fail to get us in the rooms no matter how hard it tried. I am lucky to live those days with all my dearest friends and juniors. This is one thing that I always memorise and is close to my heart.               

Little little innocent drop of water which seemed more like drops of happiness from above which GOD has sent to take away all our sufferings and pain...to sooth us from the struggle that has been going on...to give us new hope new energy and new emotions....All this he the Almighty sends for his children from above to tell them how much he wants them to be joyful...to tell them how much their smile means to him...to tell them that in this world where evil and angel walks side by side there is one thing that both of them rejoice equally....THE SHINING DROPS OF RaIn.... :) :)

Jules feels so happy when she is driving. Looking at her after drive justified the statement I heard (or read i dont rememlber exactly) that DRIVING LIBERATES A WOMAN...Now I do know that there is material in that sentence. The day I let her drive to metro station---all day long she is like on cloude 9 floating like a rose leaf in the breeze of confidence and self admiration. I really love this energy of hers and that is why try to give her as much chance as possible to drive... Conclusion : If you have a woman in your life dedicate your life to make her feel like a shining star in the sky...the illumination will bring love and joy in your life....

And so it goes--the hot air the refreshing air conditioning and then the reality of truth...yes the reality of truth and not life. Once a friend of mine , a girl who was quite a shayrana girl in herself asked, what it really means you know...LOVE. (don't mind the punctuations please coz i have always felt that punctuations put limitations which i never liked to have on my thoughts.  I Never Liked Punctuations while writing something...just thinking about WHY I don't like them...n the answer I got is------Punctuations pUt limitAtions oN your Thought and I never Liked someThinG thaT putS a LimitatIon on my MinD's ImagiNations....).  AnywayS the  answer to the question asked---Love is the extent of Honesty that you have and that you live with. That is what is Love for me. I  did not  know from where did that thought came becoz I never thought about Love much but the day I did thats what came to me and I really feel satisfied having that Image of Love :)...